Category Archives: Love & Marriage

The Duped Suitor: Mr. Rushworth, Marriage-Market Vulnerability, and Austen’s Theory of Courtship in Mansfield Park

Executive Summary Among the many suitors in Jane Austen’s novels, James Rushworth of Sotherton Court in Mansfield Park (1814) is one of the few whom Austen treats almost entirely as a warning. He is wealthy, well-connected, and eager to marry, … Continue reading →

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The Deficit and the Labor: Asymmetric Categorization of Emotional Restraint in the Research Literature, and the Case for Mutual Burden-Bearing: A White Paper

Abstract Across several distinct research literatures, the same class of behavior — concealing distress, declining to voice needs, absorbing difficulty without transmitting it, and maintaining composure in order to spare another person — is categorized in two incompatible ways depending … Continue reading →

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Paper 4: The Bride Price Reconsidered: What the Mohar Texts Actually Govern

Abstract This is the honest paper of the suite. Unlike a case built on a command that grants the reader nothing, the bride-price texts do give a father a genuine role and a genuine right of refusal. Exodus 22:16–17 and … Continue reading →

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The Architecture of Becoming One: Courtship Customs, Marriage Formation, and Social Alliance in Bravian Society: A White Paper on the Structure, Theology, and Social Logic of Bravian Courtship Practice

Department of Cultural and Family Studies Provincial College of Porterville, Year 3015 Abstract Bravian courtship occupies a distinctive position among the world’s approaches to pair formation: it is neither arranged marriage in the formal sense nor the individualistic romantic courtship … Continue reading →

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White Paper: A Biblicist Position on Patriarchy and its Limits

Executive Summary “Patriarchy” is often used imprecisely, referring at times to legitimate biblical headship and at other times to authoritarian domestic systems foreign to Scripture. This white paper clarifies: The biblically defined structure of male headship in the home and … Continue reading →

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White Paper: The Literary Phenomenon of “Self-Discovery Through Abandonment”: A Biblicist Analysis of Modern Memoirs and Barely-Fictional Novels About Women Leaving Their Husbands

Executive Summary Over the past several decades, a major subgenre of contemporary fiction and memoir has emerged in which a woman abandons her husband, marriage, or family responsibilities in order to “find herself,” pursue self-actualization, or discover an authentic identity … Continue reading →

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White Paper: The Meaning of “Husband of One Wife” and “Wife of One Husband” in the Pastoral Epistles and Extra-Biblical Literature — A Biblicist Perspective

Executive Summary The Pastoral Epistles require overseers, deacons, and (in an analogous but not identical sense) enrolled widows to demonstrate marital fidelity described by the phrases: “Husband of one wife” (mias gunaikos andra) — 1 Timothy 3:2, 12; Titus 1:6 … Continue reading →

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Book Review: The Husband Hunters

The Husband Hunters: American Heiresses Who Married Into The British Aristocracy, by Anne De Courcy Many readers of this book–and probably the ideal readers of this book–will enter this work familiar with and fond of such books as Edith Wharton’s … Continue reading →

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Book Review: The Temporary Bride

The Temporary Bride: A Memoir Of Love And Food In Iran, by Jennifer Klinec To the credit of the author, this book does not whitewash her or her husband (spoiler alert) and make them more appealing as people or make … Continue reading →

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On Emphasizing Fatherhood

As is sometimes the case, I spent some time this evening helping a dear friend of mine work on writing an answer that was provided in her essay writing study relating to the subject of fatherhood that she had a … Continue reading →

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