Category Archives: Love & Marriage

What Do You Bring to the Table? Contribution, Covenant, and Contract in Human and Institutional Relationships

Executive Summary “What do you bring to the table?” is a request for consideration in the contractual sense: it asks what a prospective party offers in exchange for admission. The question is legitimate where a bargain is in view. It … Continue reading →

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Portable Capital: The Sources and Uses of Women’s Fortunes in the Novels of Jane Austen: A White Paper

Executive Summary Jane Austen tells readers how most of her men came by their money. Darcy has Pemberley. Bingley’s money came from trade. Wentworth won his in naval prize money. Sir Thomas Bertram owns an estate in Antigua. The women’s … Continue reading →

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Kevin Samuels: The Image Consultant Who Became the Manosphere’s Most Polarizing Voice

Origins and the Image Business Kevin Roshon Samuels’s public life was short, but he became one of the most argued-about voices on dating in the early 2020s. Wikipedia lists him as born March 13, 1969, in Oklahoma City, and as … Continue reading →

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The Duped Suitor: Mr. Rushworth, Marriage-Market Vulnerability, and Austen’s Theory of Courtship in Mansfield Park

Executive Summary Among the many suitors in Jane Austen’s novels, James Rushworth of Sotherton Court in Mansfield Park (1814) is one of the few whom Austen treats almost entirely as a warning. He is wealthy, well-connected, and eager to marry, … Continue reading →

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The Deficit and the Labor: Asymmetric Categorization of Emotional Restraint in the Research Literature, and the Case for Mutual Burden-Bearing: A White Paper

Abstract Across several distinct research literatures, the same class of behavior — concealing distress, declining to voice needs, absorbing difficulty without transmitting it, and maintaining composure in order to spare another person — is categorized in two incompatible ways depending … Continue reading →

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Paper 4: The Bride Price Reconsidered: What the Mohar Texts Actually Govern

Abstract This is the honest paper of the suite. Unlike a case built on a command that grants the reader nothing, the bride-price texts do give a father a genuine role and a genuine right of refusal. Exodus 22:16–17 and … Continue reading →

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The Architecture of Becoming One: Courtship Customs, Marriage Formation, and Social Alliance in Bravian Society: A White Paper on the Structure, Theology, and Social Logic of Bravian Courtship Practice

Department of Cultural and Family Studies Provincial College of Porterville, Year 3015 Abstract Bravian courtship occupies a distinctive position among the world’s approaches to pair formation: it is neither arranged marriage in the formal sense nor the individualistic romantic courtship … Continue reading →

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White Paper: A Biblicist Position on Patriarchy and its Limits

Executive Summary “Patriarchy” is often used imprecisely, referring at times to legitimate biblical headship and at other times to authoritarian domestic systems foreign to Scripture. This white paper clarifies: The biblically defined structure of male headship in the home and … Continue reading →

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White Paper: The Literary Phenomenon of “Self-Discovery Through Abandonment”: A Biblicist Analysis of Modern Memoirs and Barely-Fictional Novels About Women Leaving Their Husbands

Executive Summary Over the past several decades, a major subgenre of contemporary fiction and memoir has emerged in which a woman abandons her husband, marriage, or family responsibilities in order to “find herself,” pursue self-actualization, or discover an authentic identity … Continue reading →

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White Paper: The Meaning of “Husband of One Wife” and “Wife of One Husband” in the Pastoral Epistles and Extra-Biblical Literature — A Biblicist Perspective

Executive Summary The Pastoral Epistles require overseers, deacons, and (in an analogous but not identical sense) enrolled widows to demonstrate marital fidelity described by the phrases: “Husband of one wife” (mias gunaikos andra) — 1 Timothy 3:2, 12; Titus 1:6 … Continue reading →

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