Abstract
Moral vocabulary serves two purposes. It lets people examine themselves, and it lets them evaluate others. In its healthiest form a moral term does both with the same standard: the fault named in a rival is the same fault the speaker must look for in himself. Over time, however, moral vocabularies tend to become asymmetrical. Terms that once applied to everyone come to be applied mainly to outsiders, while insiders’ versions of the same conduct receive flattering names, clinical excuses, or no name at all. This paper examines how that shift happens. It proposes a typology of mechanisms by which symmetric judgment becomes self-serving, traces those mechanisms through the history of vainglory in detail, and shows the same pattern in several other moral categories. It then considers why the pattern recurs, what it costs communities that fall into it, how it can be detected, and what practices help restore just judgment. Throughout, the governing standard is the scriptural requirement of just weights: the same measure applied to self and others.
1. Introduction: The Problem of Divers Weights
The law of Moses forbade merchants to keep two sets of weights, one heavy and one light: “Thou shalt not have in thy bag divers weights, a great and a small” (Deuteronomy 25:13). Proverbs returns to the image twice: “Divers weights, and divers measures, both of them are alike abomination to the LORD” (Proverbs 20:10; cf. 20:23). The dishonest merchant used the heavy weight when buying and the light weight when selling. The same cheat can be practiced in moral judgment. A heavy standard is applied to others’ faults and a light one to one’s own, and the result appears to be judgment while functioning as self-justification.
The New Testament addresses this directly. Jesus Christ warned that “with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again,” and asked why a man beholds the mote in his brother’s eye but “considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye” (Matthew 7:2–3). Paul told those who condemned the Gentiles that “thou that judgest doest the same things” (Romans 2:1). Neither passage forbids moral evaluation. Christ’s own instruction is to cast out the beam first, and then “shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother’s eye” (Matthew 7:5). The requirement is not silence. It is symmetry, applied in the right order.
The scriptural illustration of the problem is the prophet Nathan’s parable to David (2 Samuel 12:1–7). David, hearing of a rich man who took a poor man’s only lamb, condemned the offender at once and with great anger. He judged the fault accurately, but only because it was presented as someone else’s. The prophet’s four words, “Thou art the man,” restored symmetry. The episode shows that the capacity for moral judgment and the capacity for self-deception can exist in the same person at the same moment. Accurate judgment of others is no evidence of accurate judgment of oneself.
What Scripture describes in individuals also happens to entire vocabularies. Moral terms that once cut in every direction become instruments that cut only outward. This paper examines how that happens.
2. The Features of a Symmetric Moral Vocabulary
A moral vocabulary can be called symmetric when its terms have the following features:
- A single category covers self and other. The same word names the fault in the speaker, his friends, his rivals, and strangers.
- The standard lies outside the observer. The term is defined by a standard that does not depend on who is being judged or on the observer’s sympathies.
- The term admits degree. It describes a tendency present to some extent in everyone, not a condition that divides people into the afflicted and the healthy.
- The term is paired with a remedy. Naming the fault points toward a practice of correction, confession, or repentance.
- Self-examination comes first. The term’s first and most frequent use is inward.
The older Christian vocabulary of sin and virtue largely had these features, at least in its devotional use. When the Desert Fathers wrote about vainglory, anger, or envy, they wrote chiefly for monks examining their own souls. When Paul listed “the works of the flesh” (Galatians 5:19–21), he wrote to believers about their own conduct, and he followed the list with a warning about restoring a fallen brother “considering thyself, lest thou also be tempted” (Galatians 6:1).
A vocabulary loses its symmetry when one or more of these features is lost. The following section describes the common ways this occurs.
3. A Typology of Mechanisms
The shift from symmetric to asymmetric moral judgment happens through several recurring mechanisms. They often operate together.
3.1 Splitting. A single moral concept is divided into two or more terms, one flattering and one condemning, which describe the same conduct. The philosopher Bertrand Russell illustrated this with what he called “emotive conjugation”: “I am firm; you are obstinate; he is a pig-headed fool.” Each term names the same disposition, but the speaker’s choice of term depends on his relationship to the person described. When a vocabulary contains ready-made flattering and condemning names for the same conduct, symmetric judgment becomes very difficult, because the choice of word already delivers the verdict.
3.2 Abandonment and replacement. A moral term falls out of use and is replaced by vocabulary that lacks its structure. The new terms may be clinical, commercial, or political. The behavior remains, but the category that united its forms is gone.
3.3 Externalization. The term is retained, but its inward use is dropped. It becomes a word for describing other people. The self-examining practices that once accompanied it, such as confession, spiritual reading, or moral inventory, decline, and the term survives only as accusation.
3.4 Pathologization and exemption. A moral fault is reclassified as a disorder. This has two opposite effects depending on who is described. Applied to others, the clinical term condemns more absolutely than the moral one, because it implies a fixed condition. Applied to oneself or one’s friends, it excuses, because a condition is not a choice. Either way, the moral accountability of the older term is lost.
3.5 Narrowing redefinition. The boundaries of a term are redrawn so that they exclude the speaker and his group. The lawyer who asked Jesus Christ, “And who is my neighbour?” did so “willing to justify himself” (Luke 10:29). His question sought to shrink the command to love one’s neighbor until it no longer demanded anything inconvenient. The parable of the Good Samaritan answered by expanding the category past every boundary the lawyer might have preferred.
3.6 Weaponization. A term is used so frequently as an instrument of contention that its descriptive meaning erodes. It becomes a signal of hostility more than a claim about conduct. Once a term is understood chiefly as an attack, those accused of it dismiss it reflexively, and those who use it stop checking whether it fits.
3.7 Selective citation. Where a moral standard rests on authoritative texts, asymmetry can be achieved by citing the passages that condemn others’ faults and omitting those that condemn one’s own. The antebellum biblical defense of slavery offers a clear example. Its advocates cited texts regulating servitude and enjoining obedience. They were far less willing to engage passages such as the prohibition of man-stealing (Exodus 21:16) or the command not to return a fugitive servant to his master (Deuteronomy 23:15–16). The standard appeared to be applied, but only the portions that bore on others were weighed.
3.8 Reversal of valuation. A vice is redescribed as a virtue, or a virtue as a vice. This mechanism is usually gradual. It often begins with the argument that a vice is useful, proceeds to the claim that it is natural, and ends with its celebration. The corresponding virtue is recast as weakness, repression, or naïveté. Isaiah described the endpoint: “Woe unto them that call evil good, and good evil; that put darkness for light, and light for darkness” (Isaiah 5:20).
4. Case Study: Vainglory
The history of vainglory illustrates nearly every mechanism in the typology.
4.1 The symmetric starting point. Scripture names the fault in terms that apply to everyone. Philippians 2:3 forbids anything done “through strife or vainglory,” and Galatians 5:26 warns believers not to be “desirous of vain glory, provoking one another, envying one another.” John 5:44 identifies the heart of the matter: receiving “honour one of another” instead of seeking “the honour that cometh from God only.” These passages are addressed to congregations, not to outsiders. The disciples themselves disputed which of them would be accounted greatest (Luke 22:24), which places the fault squarely within the circle of Christ’s followers.
The early Christian moral tradition preserved this orientation. Evagrius Ponticus in the 4th century listed vainglory among eight principal temptations, distinct from pride. John Cassian carried the scheme to the Latin West and treated vainglory primarily as a danger to the monk himself. Cassian stressed that vainglory attacks from both sides, feeding on success and also on displays of humility and self-denial. The vocabulary was symmetric in every respect described in Section 2: universal, graded, tied to God’s standard, paired with remedies, and used first for self-examination.
4.2 Absorption. Gregory the Great, around 590, placed pride at the root of all vices and kept vainglory as one of the principal vices under it. Gregory also listed vainglory’s offspring: disobedience, boasting, hypocrisy, contentions, obstinacy, discord, and the presumption of novelty. Later medieval lists merged vainglory into pride. Aquinas continued to treat it as a distinct vice, but popular teaching increasingly spoke only of pride. The specific feature of vainglory, its orientation toward an audience, blurred. This was not yet asymmetry, but it weakened the precision that later made the concept easier to discard.
4.3 Rehabilitation by usefulness. In the 17th and 18th centuries, moral philosophers began to treat the desire for esteem as a socially productive force. Bernard Mandeville’s Fable of the Bees argued that private vices such as vanity yield public benefits. Mandeville still called them vices, so his argument was a concession about consequences, not a moral defense. Hume went further, dismissing humility and self-denial as “monkish virtues” without social value. Adam Smith took a more careful position. He distinguished the love of praise from the love of being praiseworthy and regarded vanity with contempt. Even so, the general tendency of the period was to treat the love of esteem as a force to be harnessed through commerce and institutions.
The American founders absorbed this outlook. Hamilton, in Federalist 72, described the love of fame as “the ruling passion of the noblest minds.” Much of what the founders meant by fame was durable honor for public service, which lies closer to the legitimate “good name” of Proverbs 22:1 than to empty glory. The boundary between the two, however, had become harder to see, because the vocabulary that marked it was falling out of use.
This stage corresponds to the first step of reversal of valuation (Section 3.8). The vice was not shown to be good. It was shown to be useful, and its opposing virtue was criticized as useless.
4.4 Displacement. The word itself became archaic in ordinary English. “Vanity” took its place but narrowed toward concern with appearance. “Conceit” and “egotism” covered some of the remaining ground. None of these carried the older concept’s full scope: the craving for credit, preeminence, and public standing, expressed through contention, hypocrisy, and obstinacy.
4.5 Pathologization. From the late 19th century, psychological vocabulary began to fill the gap. Havelock Ellis and Paul Näcke used the Narcissus image in the 1890s. Freud’s essay “On Narcissism” appeared in 1914. The work of Heinz Kohut and Otto Kernberg in the mid-20th century developed the clinical concept, and Narcissistic Personality Disorder entered the psychiatric diagnostic manual in 1980. Christopher Lasch’s The Culture of Narcissism (1979) carried the term into cultural criticism. The moral category had become a clinical one.
4.6 Splitting. At the same time, the approved forms of praise-seeking received flattering names. Self-promotion came to be treated as a professional skill. Management writer Tom Peters’s 1997 essay “The Brand Called You” helped popularize the idea of the personal brand. The self-esteem movement of the 1980s, including a California state task force established in 1986, recast the craving for affirmation as a psychological need. Visibility, platform, engagement, and influence became terms of achievement.
The result is the characteristic outcome of splitting (Section 3.1). A single desire, for the praise of others as an end in itself, now carries positive names when observers approve of the person and a clinical name when they do not. A popular figure’s self-display is called branding or confidence. An unpopular figure’s identical self-display is called narcissism. The old term would have required both to be examined by the same standard. The new vocabulary makes that examination difficult, because the choice of word reflects the verdict already reached.
4.7 Externalization. The clinical term is also almost entirely outward-facing. A diagnosis is something other people have. The self-examining use of vainglory, which was its original purpose, has no counterpart in the replacement vocabulary.
4.8 Assessment. Vainglory was never refuted. Its critics attacked the remedy, humility, as weak or useless, and its rehabilitators defended the motive as socially beneficial. No one demonstrated that seeking the praise of men above the honor that comes from God is good. The concept was absorbed, rehabilitated, displaced, pathologized, split, and externalized. The behavior it named remains fully present, and is if anything more richly rewarded under the conditions of the contemporary attention economy.
5. The Pattern in Other Moral Categories
Vainglory is not an isolated case. The same mechanisms can be observed in many other moral categories. The following examples are chosen to show that the pattern crosses factional lines.
5.1 Hypocrisy. In the Gospels, hypocrisy is the charge Jesus Christ brought most sharply against religious leaders, those who were most confident of their own righteousness (Matthew 23). It was a warning to insiders. In contemporary use, hypocrisy has largely become a debating weapon. Pointing out an opponent’s inconsistency is treated as a refutation of his argument, while one’s own inconsistencies are described as growth, nuance, or complexity. The term has been weaponized (Section 3.6) and externalized (Section 3.3). It is also frequently used in ways that confuse two different things: the failure to live up to a standard, which afflicts everyone, and the pretense of righteousness, which is what Scripture condemns.
5.2 Pride. Pride was historically the root of all vices. In modern usage the word has been largely revalued as a virtue across many kinds of identity: national, regional, ethnic, institutional, and familial. Meanwhile, the disapproved forms of self-exaltation are called arrogance, entitlement, or supremacy, depending on who displays them. This is a combination of splitting and reversal of valuation. Each group tends to regard its own pride as healthy self-respect and a rival group’s pride as dangerous.
5.3 Avarice. Covetousness, which Paul called idolatry (Colossians 3:5), is now routinely split. Desire for gain in favored people is ambition, enterprise, or security. The same desire in disfavored people is greed. Across the political spectrum, the charge of greed is readily directed at opponents’ economic interests, while one’s own interests are defended as fairness, prudence, or the rewards of work.
5.4 Envy. Envy is similarly split. Grievance at another’s advantage is described in one’s own group as a demand for justice, and in another group as resentment or envy. Here too the pattern is symmetric in its asymmetry: each faction tends to detect envy in the other and justice in itself. The distinction between legitimate complaint and envy is real, but it is rarely drawn by the same standard for both sides.
5.5 Wrath. Anger in oneself or one’s allies is “righteous indignation.” Anger in opponents is rage, hysteria, or extremism. Scripture does recognize legitimate anger (Ephesians 4:26), but it also warns that “the wrath of man worketh not the righteousness of God” (James 1:20). The question of which anger is righteous is almost always answered by reference to whose anger it is.
5.6 Sloth. The older concept of acedia described a spiritual listlessness: a resistance to the demands of love and the effort of transformation. Over time it narrowed to physical laziness, and then was often applied mainly to the poor. This narrowing allowed the comfortable and the busy to regard themselves as free of the vice, even when their activity served to avoid spiritual obligations. Narrowing redefinition (Section 3.5) turned a universal warning into a class accusation.
5.7 Talebearing. Scripture condemns the talebearer and the whisperer (Leviticus 19:16; Proverbs 16:28; 26:20). In contemporary usage, sharing damaging information about disliked figures is often called raising awareness, exposing, or speaking truth, while the same practice directed at favored figures is called smearing. The moral question of whether a report is true, necessary, and rightly motivated is displaced by the question of whose side it serves.
5.8 Liberty. The antebellum history discussed in connection with this project offers a political case. The founding generation, whatever its failures, generally acknowledged slavery as inconsistent with the universal language of liberty. By the 1830s Southern leaders had narrowed the concept of liberty to exclude the enslaved, and by the 1850s some attacked the principle of equality directly. The universal term was narrowed, then partly abandoned, and those who invoked its older meaning were suppressed. Narrowing redefinition, selective citation, and reversal of valuation all appear in that sequence.
In each of these cases the moral category was not refuted. It was split, narrowed, weaponized, or externalized in ways that allowed those who used it to escape its application to themselves.
6. Why the Pattern Recurs
Several forces drive moral vocabularies toward asymmetry. Most operate in every era; some are intensified by modern conditions.
6.1 Self-love. Scripture locates the root in the human heart: “The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it?” (Jeremiah 17:9). “All the ways of a man are clean in his own eyes” (Proverbs 16:2; cf. 21:2). The last days are marked by people who are “lovers of their own selves” (2 Timothy 3:2). A person who loves himself inordinately will prefer a vocabulary that spares him.
6.2 Group loyalty. Individuals extend their self-love to the groups with which they identify. Criticism of one’s faction feels like criticism of oneself. As a result, the asymmetry that individuals practice privately becomes a shared norm within communities, reinforced by mutual approval.
6.3 The costs of self-examination. Symmetric moral vocabulary imposes a continual demand for repentance. A person or community that uses it honestly must repeatedly admit fault. Asymmetric vocabulary removes that demand. It offers the satisfactions of moral judgment without its costs.
6.4 Persistent failure. When a community holds a standard and repeatedly fails to meet it, three responses are available: reform, confessed failure, or abandonment of the standard. Abandonment offers the quickest relief, and each generation that chooses it hands its successors a vocabulary in which the failure is no longer visible.
6.5 Status investment. Leaders whose authority rests on a particular position cannot easily admit error. Among vainglory’s offspring, Gregory listed obstinacy. The more public a figure’s commitment to a self-serving vocabulary, the costlier it becomes to abandon.
6.6 Defensiveness under attack. When a community’s faults are pressed by adversaries, especially adversaries who are themselves self-righteous, admitting those faults feels like capitulation. The community then hardens its position. The antebellum South’s retreat from the founders’ language accelerated under abolitionist attack. The attacker’s asymmetry can provoke the defender’s.
6.7 Rewards for contention. Moral terms used as weapons are more useful in contention than moral terms used for self-examination. Where public discourse rewards conflict, as the contemporary attention economy plainly does, the weaponized uses spread and the inward uses recede.
6.8 Inheritance. Once an asymmetric vocabulary is established, later generations learn it as the ordinary way of speaking. What began as avoidance becomes simple ignorance. The blind spot is no longer chosen; it is inherited.
7. The Costs of Asymmetry
The loss of symmetric moral vocabulary imposes serious costs.
7.1 Loss of self-correction. A community that can name faults only in others cannot correct its own. Its failures become invisible to it, while remaining obvious to outsiders.
7.2 Escalating contention. When each faction applies moral terms only to its opponents, public discourse becomes an exchange of accusations. Each side hears the other’s charges as mere hostility, because it knows those charges are never applied to the accuser. The accusations cancel out and persuade no one.
7.3 Injustice in judgment. Asymmetric judgment is not merely unkind; it is unjust. “He that justifieth the wicked, and he that condemneth the just, even they both are abomination to the LORD” (Proverbs 17:15). A vocabulary that systematically excuses allies and condemns opponents will produce both errors.
7.4 Disarmament of reformers. Symmetric standards give reformers a lever: they can appeal to principles their opponents already acknowledge. When the standard has been abandoned, narrowed, or split, reformers have nothing shared to appeal to. The retention of the Declaration’s universal language outside the South gave later reformers a foundation. Its abandonment within the South removed that foundation in the place it was most needed.
7.5 Distorted self-knowledge. Individuals formed in an asymmetric vocabulary may sincerely believe themselves free of faults they commit daily, because they have never been given the words to recognize those faults in themselves.
8. Indicators of an Asymmetric Moral Term
The following indicators suggest that a moral term has lost its symmetry. They can be applied to any vocabulary, including one’s own.
- Paired euphemism. A flattering synonym exists for the same conduct and is regularly used for favored people.
- Accusation-only use. The term is almost never used in the first person, except in formulas of mock confession.
- The reversal test fails. The same conduct by someone of the opposite affiliation would be described differently.
- The boundary conveniently excludes the speaker. The term’s definition, as used in practice, happens to omit the speaker’s group.
- The remedy is forgotten. The term is used to condemn but no longer points toward any practice of correction.
- Clinical substitution. A moral fault has been renamed as a condition, and the condition is attributed mostly to others.
- Suppression of the older meaning. Those who invoke the term’s older, broader meaning are treated as disloyal or dangerous.
- Weapon status. The term is heard chiefly as an attack and is dismissed by its targets without consideration.
The presence of these indicators does not prove that a particular accusation is false. An asymmetrically used term may still apply accurately in a given case. The indicators show that the term has ceased to function as a reliable instrument of judgment and must be used with deliberate care.
9. Practices of Recovery
Symmetric judgment can be restored, at least in individuals and communities that deliberately pursue it. The following practices help.
9.1 Recovering unified terms. Reclaiming older words that cover both flattering and condemning forms of the same conduct makes splitting harder. Vainglory is one example; covetousness, envy, wrath, and talebearing are others. Where no single word exists, the conduct can be described plainly instead of named with a loaded term.
9.2 Self-application first. Christ’s instruction is sequential: the beam first, then the mote (Matthew 7:5). A practical discipline is to apply any moral term to oneself before applying it to anyone else, and to apply it to one’s allies before applying it to one’s opponents.
9.3 Just weights. Before pronouncing judgment, the reversal test (Section 8) can be applied deliberately: the conduct is imagined performed by someone of the opposite affiliation, and the verdict compared. The standard is the one Scripture sets for judges: “Ye shall not respect persons in judgment; but ye shall hear the small as well as the great” (Deuteronomy 1:17; cf. Leviticus 19:15).
9.4 Hearing the other side. “He that is first in his own cause seemeth just; but his neighbour cometh and searcheth him” (Proverbs 18:17). Seeking out the strongest account of the opposing view, and the opposing side’s account of one’s own faults, exposes asymmetries that are invisible from within.
9.5 Receiving correction. “Faithful are the wounds of a friend” (Proverbs 27:6). Communities that treat correction as a gift, and that normalize graceful public retraction, make obstinacy less necessary and self-examination less costly.
9.6 Reading old works. Older writers do not share the present age’s partisan alignments. Their categories cut across contemporary factions. C.S. Lewis argued that reading old books corrects the characteristic blind spots of one’s own time, because earlier writers have different blind spots. The Desert Fathers, Augustine, and Aquinas cannot be recruited into modern quarrels, and their vocabulary for vice applies uncomfortably to all parties.
9.7 Testing tradition by Scripture. Old vocabulary has its own blind spots. The Bereans’ practice of searching the Scriptures to test what they heard (Acts 17:11) applies to traditional moral categories as well. Scripture serves as the standard by which inherited vocabulary is corrected.
9.8 Confession. The ultimate remedy for asymmetric judgment is the practice of confession. “If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins” (1 John 1:8–9). A person who regularly names his own faults before God is less likely to reserve moral language for others.
10. Limits and Cautions
10.1 Symmetry is not equivalence. Applying the same standard to all parties does not mean that all parties are equally at fault. Some faults are graver than others, and some people are more guilty than others. False balance, in which every fault is declared equal to every other so that no judgment can be made, is itself a form of injustice. Symmetric judgment weighs everyone on the same scale; it does not require that the scale read the same for everyone.
10.2 Judgment remains necessary. Scripture requires moral discernment. Jesus Christ commanded, “Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment” (John 7:24). Paul expected congregations to judge conduct within them (1 Corinthians 5:12). The goal of symmetric vocabulary is not to prevent judgment but to make it just.
10.3 The diagnostic can itself be abused. Charges of asymmetry can become their own weapon, used to deflect any criticism by pointing to the critic’s inconsistencies. The indicators in Section 8 are meant first for self-examination and only secondarily for evaluating others.
10.4 Hearts remain hidden. Conduct can be assessed; motives can only be inferred. “Judge nothing before the time, until the Lord come, who both will bring to light the hidden things of darkness, and will make manifest the counsels of the hearts” (1 Corinthians 4:5).
11. Conclusion
Moral vocabularies tend to drift from symmetry toward self-service. The drift occurs through recognizable mechanisms: splitting a concept into flattering and condemning terms, abandoning it for a replacement vocabulary, externalizing it so that it applies only to others, pathologizing it, narrowing its boundaries, weaponizing it, citing its sources selectively, and finally reversing its valuation. The history of vainglory shows nearly all of these at work. The concept was never refuted. It was absorbed, rehabilitated as useful, displaced, clinically renamed, and divided so that the same desire for empty glory now carries flattering names in admired people and a diagnosis in disliked ones.
The same pattern appears in hypocrisy, pride, avarice, envy, wrath, sloth, talebearing, and liberty. In each case the moral category was bent to spare those who used it. The forces behind this drift are enduring: self-love, group loyalty, the costs of repentance, persistent failure, status investment, defensiveness, the rewards of contention, and inheritance. The costs are equally enduring: communities lose the capacity for self-correction, discourse becomes an exchange of mutually dismissed accusations, reformers are disarmed, and individuals lose accurate knowledge of themselves.
Recovery requires unified terms, self-application first, deliberate use of just weights, a willingness to hear opponents and receive correction, the perspective of older writers tested by Scripture, and above all the practice of confession. The scriptural image remains the clearest: one set of weights, honestly kept, used for buying and selling alike. A moral vocabulary that meets that standard is uncomfortable to use, because it always returns to the one using it. That discomfort is the evidence that it is working.
